We
hear it all the time - parents are their children's first and
most important teachers. That role seems more clear cut when
they are very young and need help with just about everything -
from practicing how to tie their shoes to looking both ways
before crossing a street. But once a child enters school,
other adults assume the teacher role, leaving many parents
wondering what they can do to support and encourage
learning... in school and out.
One
thing is certain: for children to learn their lessons well and
remain curious about the many new and interesting parts of
their world, they still need their parents' help and daily
encouragement. Research repeatedly shows that children are
better, more successful learners when their parents are
actively involved in their learning, both at home and at
school.
Before
you rush to the store for a pack of flash cards consider this:
When it comes to helping children grow as learners, many of
the things that parents do each day are what really matter
most. For example:
This
includes setting aside a consistent time each day when
children will complete their homework. It also means
encouraging children to read and write for pleasure and
sett3ing limits on television, computer and video game
usage. (FYI: The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends
that school-age children spend no more than one to two hours
a day watching TV and playing computer games - and that
children not watch TV while doing homework).
Parents
know3 better than anyone else what their children are
interested in and what their talents are. Take the time to
encourage your children's strengths and find ways to support
them when they struggle. This sends the message that you are
ready to help them succeed. For example, offer to help
younger children sound out words as they read to you. Play
math games as you drive in the car. Meet with the teacher to
discuss how you can work together to help your child master
a difficult subject.
Just
because the school day is over doesn't mean that learning
has to end. If your child is learning about different types
of communities, a family trip to a local farm can provide an
interesting lesson on rural community life. Try turning an
interest in cooking into an international theme dinner. If
you have a skateboarding enthusiast in your family,
subscribe to a magazine on his/her favorite topic. The point
is to make learning fun. Libraries, museums, local
historical sites and the Internet are all wonderful
resources to help you nurture your child's interests while
spending quality time together. Two kid-friendly search
engines to try are Yahooligans (www.yahooligans.com) and Ask
Jeeves for Kids (www.ajkids.com).
Open
house at the beginning of the year is a great time to get to
know your children's teachers and learn about ways you can
support the year's learning at home. Parent-teacher
conferences are a good time to talk about the areas where
your child may need extra help or ways you can expand upon
classroom lessons. Volunteering in the classroom, attending
school events and sending notes or e-mail messages are great
ways to keep in touch with teachers throughout the year and
stay informed about what your children are learning.